How to Deal with the L.A. Rain
1. Get dressed up in your finest Disney ensemble to battle the cruel, cold conditions:
2. Break out the soup:
3. Try not to go crazy when your husband also decides to work from home and sets up his laptop 2 feet from yours:
4. Stay clear of the freeways:
5. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and take Maya to volunteer at The Giving Spirit drive. (We packed up tons of duffel bags to be distributed to the homeless. This really is a remarkable organization):
6. Trek over to Souplantation for dinner, along with the rest of Brentwood:
7. Get cozy in front of the TV and be grateful for all that we have.
P.S. For any fiction fans, check out the updated Book Review page for The Castaways by Elin Hilderbrand. I read this in 3 days so it’s worth checking out!
The Castaways
by Elin Hilderbrand
I have read all of Elin Hildebrand’s previous books and they all seem to share similar premises: the trials and tribulations of unhappily married Nantucket couples. This particular book is not any different. That said I read this book in just three days and it really is hard to put down!
The author illustrates the lives of 8 friends (4 couples) and how they are affected by the sudden deaths of one couple in a boating accident. Andrea, Chief, Delilah, Jeffrey, Tess, Greg, Phoebe and Addison or the “Castaways” as they call themselves deal with their grief in many different forms – from Andrea’s depression and resulting inability to get through even the most mundane daily tasks, to Phoebe suddenly and unexpectedly releasing her grip on her various pill addictions. Then there is Addison who we quickly learn was having an affair with the now deceased Tess and Jeffrey who still loves ex-girlfriend Andrea but also loves his wife Delilah.
Honestly, trying to keep track of all 8 characters was quite challenging in the beginning. I found myself having to go back to the first few chapters at times trying to clear up my confusion. The characters are all interconnected and it takes quite a bit of focus to keep things straight. Thus this is not a beach read but more of a serious novel that one needs to devote attention to. Easier said than done when you have a 4-year-old constantly pestering you with questions!
The author has a tendency to go into great detail which can be good but also a bit tedious. Do we really need to know what each person ordered at a restaurant in Las Vegas? Um, no. Does it matter how long Delilah’s labor was? Not really. But for the most part I did appreciate the great deal of depth that Elin Hilderbrand put into each character and I loved the detailed descriptions of Nantucket which sounds like an amazingly beautiful backdrop.
I found the author’s ability to flash back and forth between the present and times before the accident, while also flashing back and forth between the points of view of each of the 6 surviving friends quite remarkable. I have no idea how she kept all the characters and timelines straight with so many factors in the mix. I wish I had half of her writing ability.
If you are looking for an entertaining, well written book about marriage and friendship this is one to definitely check out. Not Elin Hilderbrand’s best but definitely close to the top. I also recommend her books A Summer Affair: A Novel and Barefoot which are also excellent.
An Ode to Trader Joe’s
The list of things that I can eat shrinks on what seems like a daily basis. While I try to isolate what I am allergic to, I am not supposed to eat gluten, wheat, dairy, any type of grain, or anything with sugar. I also don’t eat meat, chicken or soy. So that pretty much covers everything, doesn’t it? I feel sorry for people who invite me over and have to cook for me. I also feel sorry for people who have to dine with me. But more than anything I feel sorry for myself!
Needless to say I am hungry most of the time. At lunch today I took one look at my perpetually empty fridge and fast tracked it over to my second home – Trader Joe’s. I knew that I needed to find something new to eat because if I had one more omelette I was going to lose my marbles.
After making my way through the seemingly mocking rows of Christmas cookies and chocolates, pies and fresh sourdough bread, I was suddenly inspired by these two items…
What Tongol means I’m not really sure but the label says its Dolphin-safe and that makes Tongol a winner in my book already. I mixed most of the can with some of the Broccoli Slaw, added avocado, and made a dressing of flaxseed oil, apple cider vinegar, and TJ’s salsa.
It was actually quite good! Tongol tastes a bit like canned salmon. For any of you struggling with stomach problems I suggest you try this dish because I can attest to the fact that there isn’t a single thing in here that can give you a stomach ache! And when I shut my eyes real tight and visualized hard enough I almost convinced myself that I was eating Chick-fil-A’s coleslaw. (How great is that stuff? I haven’t had it in about 15 years and I still remember how delicious it is. )
While we are on the topic, here are other things I love from Trader Joe’s:
- Organic frozen fruit – especially the strawberries because they are perfect for smoothies.
- Peach salsa – this stuff is amazing on anything although these days I am not eating it because of the sugar content.
- Orchids – these are gorgeous and for just $12 they last for about 3 months. I don’t exactly have a green thumb so they might last longer for other people.
- Organic green beans – is it strange that I defrost and snack on these?
- Pizza dough – comes in wheat, white, and garlic-rosemary (I think). Great for calzones and pizza.
- Harvest Wheat Bread – this is the best bread (not that I am eating it these days) but it has about 5 ingredients and they all belong in bread. Great price too, I think the whole loaf is $1.99?
- Frozen Garlic Naan – as a person of Indian descent I can say that these are as close to the real thing as you’ll get unless you fly to India. Not crazy about the Plain Naan though.
- Masala Veggie Burgers – if I have to stay on a gluten-free diet this is what I will miss the most. These are amazing, like samosas without the pastry shell. I wish they could make them without the bread crumbs.
- 70% Pound Plus Dark Chocolate – luckily I can still eat this when I can have sugar again. At least chocolate has no gluten!
- Almond-Windmill Cookies – these are heavenly. The only problem is they get stale pretty fast and being that I was the only person in the house who ate them I would feel too much pressure to eat them before they got soft! I had to stop buying them.
- Blue Corn Chips – these are super addicting and gluten-free!
- Organic Chunky Peanut Butter – just peanuts and salt but somehow it tastes like it has sugar in it. So good.
Trader Joe’s is a lifesaver if you have kids too. A few of Maya’s favorites things at TJ’s are:
- The free stickers – we have piles of them.
- The free snacks in the TJ’s mailbox – we have piles of Cat Cookies too.
- The free in-store samples – what can I say? Maya loves a freebie.
- Chicken Drumettes (spelling?) – so glad these are back on the shelves! It’s the only kind of chicken nugget I will buy her.
- Fish Sticks – made from cod I think.
- Vanilla/Blueberry Yogurt Cups – good for lunch boxes.
- Popcorn – this is a great snack that isn’t bad for kids and Maya thinks she is eating “junk food.”
What I don’t like at Trader Joe’s:
- A lot of their fruit looks good but when you cut into it the whole thing is bad. Pears and avocados seem to be their biggest problem.
- I found a hair on one of the Garlic Naan’s. Really gross considering the product comes from India and thus the hair was on there for the product’s entire journey across the world and for God knows how long.
- Trader Joe’s Turkey Meatballs – back when I ate turkey I tried these and they were dry and disgusting!
- Crazy parking lots no matter what time of the day. This is the case in L.A. at least, it may not be everywhere.
Anyway, if you are still reading this you must love TJ’s as much as me. What are some of your favorite Trader Joe’s items?
Calzones and a New Blender
This morning our 9-year-old blender died. Normally I would say that a 9 year run was pretty decent for any appliance but we’ve used it only about 15 times in those 9 years. Krups, I am not impressed. Anyway, after much cursing and banging on the blender in hopes it would miraculously blend the smoothie I was planning to drink this morning, I finally faced the fact that violence wasn’t going to get me breakfast.
After school today Maya and I braved the depths of Bed Bath and Beyond to pick up a new blender. The store near us is the size of a Costco times 2. I can’t imagine how they track inventory because they sell every single thing in the world. LIFO? FIFO? I have no idea but I feel for the inventory control people at their store. Anyway its a good place to waste an hour and that we did.
Did you know that a blender can be upwards of $200? Me neither. It didn’t take long for Maya and I to select this one because it was one of the few under $100. Maya thought it looked pretty. That was enough for both of us.
I used it tonight to make some carrot soup using this recipe minus the leeks (which I didn’t have). So far so good. I really like the touch screen and the compact size. This blender is much easier to clean than the Krups too. What I didn’t like? The name Oster. Why would a brand choose a name that dates itself so much? But it was $49.99 and I was able to use one of the BB&B 20% off coupons that flood my mailbox weekly. For that price I can deal with the 1970 name.
Naturally Maya refused to eat carrot soup so we made calzones for dinner too. They are pretty easy and really good if you can eat wheat. I can’t and I am still bitter about it.
Start with some Trader Joe’s pizza dough and a 4-year-old who is handy with a rolling-pin.
Divide the dough into 4 equal parts and roll each into an oval shape.
Meanwhile cook up whatever you want to put inside…we did broccoli, spinach, tomato sauce, and mozzarella cheese. Sorry for the unattractive picture but this is really quite good.
Divide the mixture into four and put it in the middle of each oval. Fold the dough over and using a fork seal the ends shut.
Cook on a greased baking sheet for 15 minutes at 450 degrees.
Ignore your child and husband when they ask you what the “green stuff” is.
Are there any readers out there? I’ve started a new page for Book Reviews. Check out the review I did for the book I just finished: After You by Julie Buxbaum.
After You
by Julie Buxbaum
There is a fine line between chick lit and meaningful chick lit. While I have nothing against the light, airy nature of chick lit, I often find myself looking for something with a bit more substance. You know how it is, there is a time and a place for different genres, depending on your mood, your time, and your attention span. Well I was in the mood for something serious but relatable as well and I found exactly that in this engrossing novel.
Ellie Lerner’s best friend (Lucy) was murdered, leaving behind a devastated husband (Greg) and eight-year-old daughter (Sophie). Ellie quickly leaves her crumbling marriage in Boston to fly to London and take care of Sophie and Greg. She stays on after the funeral to address her own demons – her inability to move past a stillborn child, her parent’s marriage woes, her own seemingly insurmountable insecurities.
I was very interested in the unique premise of this novel. Sophie won my heart over immediately as a very likeable and sympathetic semi-orphan. As a mother, I couldn’t imagine how traumatized a child would be after seeing her mother killed. The author does an excellent job of fleshing out Sophie’s adult-like character.
Initially I did not take a liking to Ellie. Her character wore on my nerves with her indifference to her husband and job and responsibilities back home. I guess I am the kind of person who moves on from negativity pretty quickly and the fact that Ellie couldn’t get past a tragedy she AND her husband shared really bothered me. I wasn’t fond of her needy nature. As the novel progressed, however, Ellie became a lot more likable. As an impatient mother I appreciated the seemingly endless attention she showered on Sophie…from taking her to counseling to reading The Secret Garden (one of my favorite novels of all time) together. I don’t want to give anything away so I will say this – with a few unexpected turns in Ellie’s life and surprising information regarding Lucy, the novel quickly became a page turner.
This book left me thinking of all the different messages the author conveyed through the novel: how to move past a tragedy, how to value the people in your life, and how to remember what is truly important in the grand scheme of things. I highly recommend this novel, if not for just a temporary escape into someone else’s problems, than for the sole reason of reminding us what really matters in life.

















